*NON JUDGEMENT ZONE :::: Warning: This post may cause you to believe you know something about my life (that you don?t) and cause you to want to enter the a realm of judgment. Save it. Read it till the end. Extract the lesson (or the entertainment) and move on. 
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A lot sooner than later, I intend to start writing a new series entitled ?People the World Needs to Know? on my more professional, business/career driven lifestyle blog?The Shakedown Breakdown. In this series, I will interview, describe and overall endorse the people who are working towards their dreams and are being absolutely amazing in the midst of their journey. These people are friends, associates and strangers that I just feel like the world should know about and be inspired by.
Today I had the pleasure of catching up with a close friend of mine. After our conversation, I felt compelled to write a similar post about a lesson I believed our friendship had to offer the world. Due to its much more personal (and eyebrow raising) content than the posts for that site, I decided it was better?to expose the lesson to those who read my personal inspirational (or sometimes simply diary like) posts.
While trying to catch up on why I had been so distant for the past few weeks and all that has gone on in our lives in the said weeks, we found ourselves discussing what makes bedroom situations be the absolute best (don?t ask how or why we got there lol). I shared with her that I had realized a long time ago that the best sex is that with no inhibitions. ?It can?t be at its greatest unless both parties are willing to do anything and everything they can,? I said. Sure?there are some things you just shouldn?t do some inhibitions are important, acting as a warning system for your right mind, but I?m pretty positive that there is a direct correlation to how comfortable you are with your partner and your actions and the maximum level of pleasure you?ll get out of them.
After finishing that conversation and all the rest of the catching up we had to do, we went our separate ways I walked away with a huge smile. ?Halima is one of the best friends I?ve ever had in life,? my annoying-mushy-lonely-missing my friends-mind thought (because of course I in my right mind couldn?t have thought such a thing). Being the life-dwelling over-analytical person I am, I began to think about how this specific friendship had held so tight and resonated in my mind as being one of the best. Then it hit me.
It was the same revelation that I?d?had so long ago when analyzing my other interactions. That was it. Halima is one of my best friends because we learned over the years to not have inhibitions. I cannot tell you the amount of things Halima and I disagree about. Only God knows how many times we do things that piss one another off. Halima in all actuality is my one friend that I struggle to find many surface similarities with at all. I don?t know how or why it happened but somehow while knowing one another we got so comfortable discussing and sharing information that our conversations literally range from God to men to our habits to our friends to our families to our fears to our dreams and back around again almost all in one breath.
Pondering my new revelation for a second sent me to thoughts of one of my LENT 2012 prayer topics: my HUSBAND?. I don?t know who he is or what he
will entail. I don?t know how we?ll get to that level or what will bring us so close together but one thing is very clear to me now. I will know he?s the one when I have no inhibitions and I pray that when that time comes he feels the same. There can?t be a single thing that we aren?t comfortable discussing, seeing or doing with one another. He?s got to be that one companion that has no boundaries and is willing to go to boundless heights. *insert shouts and praises*
Sure this post turned into somewhat of a rant but I really hope the point is clear:
You want to know how to make any?relationship?better? Get rid of your inhibitions.
Now if you have good reason to keep your inhibitions, you may want to more clearly examine why you have your relationship in the first place. I mean I?m always down for people who play their role in your life but I?m talking about your inner circle; the ones that are closest to you, your heart, your body, your mind and your soul. Uninhibited relationships are sure to be the best you ever had!
Do you have any uninhibited relationships? Are they your absolute best? Are inhibitions necessary in close relationships? What are some other things that make relationships amazing? Tell us about it in the comment section below!
*This post is a part of my LENT 2012. To learn more about how I am spending these 40 days, seeDirty Laundry?and enter the password ?I?ll Pray? (without quotation marks).
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